I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?

This one is easy to answer.

He just told you that he loved you, and he led you on. He probably mentioned your future together, and even marriage.

When he approached you, he never thought about love, because he did not love you. He only thought about how he could take from you, until you were left a dried-out husk.

How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

You gave him everything. That is what he was after.

He never loved you.

These types of NPD men are a dime a dozen.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?

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